Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts

Friday, June 21, 2013

Five on Friday

It's just one of those weeks.

And also, I'm having a bit of insomnia (hello, 4 AM.)

So I thought I would join in on the randomness.

{1.} Seven years ago this week I started work at a summer camp outside of Philadelphia. Kind of a random place for a Florida girl to go and work, but it happened. You see, 8 years ago I got pretty sick and the doctors couldn't figure out exactly what was wrong. I eventually had trouble standing, walking, and, at the worst of it, had trouble gripping a pencil. So, in the midst of the whole "not knowing if I was going to live or not" thing, I wrote my bucket list. And, apparently, one of the things I had to do before I died was lifeguard at a summer camp.

So, when I started to get better, I decided that there was no time like the present to get started on my bucket list. So, I got a job at a summer camp.

Well, it turned out to be a Jewish summer camp.

And I didn't know that.

So. Wtapping up. Southern Baptist girl spends 8+ weeks away from home for the first time lifeguarding at a Jewish sleepaway camp in the Poconos.

Shabbat services and all.

It was a wonderful experience (met alot of neat people from all over the world)

and it was a horrible experience (saw the depravity of the world for the first time. In a summer camp. Yes, I know the irony in that.)

And also, I got a ridiculous tan.

 Point in case.

All of that to say, that my little 5th and 6th grade girls that were in my cabin graduated this year. From high school. And are going to college. I feel so old.

{2.} Let's continue our walk down memory lane for a moment, shall we?

Ian and I celebrated our 5th anniversary last week.


It's been a crazy, fun, adventure filled 5 years.

5 years, 4 countries, 6 homes, and 2 children later and I really wouldn't change any of it.

We were talking about how we've changed and what the biggest difference we see in ourselves might be. Probably the biggest thing is just the maturity that comes with age and experience. We feel older, more steady. Slower to speak, quicker to think.

I've always been  told that I was an old soul, but now I feel like one, ha!

Ian and I were able to slip away for a night and some friends of ours watched the girls overnight. It was the first time I've left them except when I left Grace to have Sophia! We just haven't had someone to watch the girls or we would have done it much sooner and much more often. We had a snack at one of the hotel restaurants, took in the beautiful view, and had a late dinner at a romantic Moroccan restaurant.

{3.} The girls are changing so much and so quickly!

Grace has shocked me by just growing so much with her language development. Just last week she said new words completely out of the blue- vacuum, counter, taco, and Tinker Bell. I mean, what the heck? How and where did she pick those words up? I mean, I never vacuum. ha. She also is really improving in her Fine Motor control. She has shown more interest in coloring and isn't just doing random scribbles in big lines, she is actually trying to color on or in shapes and such.

She's very tall and often gets mistaken for being 3 or even a young 4! Her 2 year old molars are popping through and since she's running a fever, we've been having alot more paci and snuggles on the couch.

Sophia, well, she's crawling now. And pulling up. And outgrown her baby bath. My baby! She can clap and wave and she loves any and all food.

{4.} Speaking of girls...I really dropped the ball on Father's Day this year. I had taken these pictures and meant to order cards for our dads and have them printed in a frame for Ian to have on his desk but I just never got around to it. My husband, dad, and father-in-law are just wonderful, Godly men, who are great fathers! I am so grateful for them!

{5.} We have just a week left in our house and just 10 days until we step foot on the plane! I am ready to go. Right now! It's at that awkward place that if I pack now, we'll be in transition too long, living out of suitcases while still in our house. But I have nothing but time so I really want to do something. Kind of like de-nesting. So I've taken to trying to sell some of our least favorite furniture or things online. Though I'm not willing to let things go if it is going to be a complete financial loss, so, no luck so far. Hopefully we can make some spending money before we head to the (expensive) US!

Friday, June 15, 2012

Happy Anniversary!

Yesterday was our four year wedding anniversary!

Four years ago, on June 14th, 2008, I married the man of my dreams. He inspires me to be more, cherishes me for what I am, and loves me despite myself.

He is my best friend and is my "other half," in every aspect of the term. We've lived in many different places and gone through some times of uncertainty with jobs and finances, infertility and other struggles, but he has been my rock, the person that I leaned on during those hard times. He is brilliant, funny, witty, athletic, poised, well spoken, diplomatic, hard working, diligent, kind, and oh-so-handsome! I respect him and love him more than he will ever know.


I am so grateful that God brought Ian into my life all of those years ago and intertwined our paths over the years. I love every minute of our story and am looking forward to decades more of our long, slow, beautiful dance called LIFE!




Thursday, June 16, 2011

Date Night

On Tuesday, our anniversary, Ian and I went out on our first date, post Grace being born!

I know, I know. 10 weeks is a long time not to have a date night. It's not because we didn't want to, and it's not because we don't have friends ready and willing to stay with her, but since a date night for us means crossing an international border, we have to have a little extra cash in order to do something like that.

SO, Tuesday, our friend Alison came and watched Grace. I only had one bottle of pumped milk, as I was at school all day and couldn't pump much to get a 2nd bottle. I was a little nervous that Grace was going to be screaming mad for her 10 pm feeding if we didn't get back in time!
Ian and I headed off by 5 pm, but the line at the border was so long that we didn't get to the mall until 6:30! Frustrating since the mall is probably only 10 miles away, but since we have to cross the border, it takes longer!

We stopped by the movie theater to go ahead and buy our movie tickets. The theaters work a little differently here. Movies are only out for a short amount of time, so that they can cycle through to something new. So, if you don't get to the theaters for the 7-10 days a movie is showing, you are out of luck! Plus, there are usually only 4 or 5 showings in a day. Well, the showing for the new X-Men was at 6:45, so we went to the counter, picked out our seats (they have assigned seating here!) Ian dashed off to find an ATM so we could purchase our tickets, and then we bought snacks to hold us over.

Afterall, our plan HAD been to eat dinner and then watch a movie, but there was only one more showing at 9:45 and that would be too late, so we adjusted our plan.
We really enjoyed the movie and I loved eating my peanut M&Ms and snacking on the nachos that Ian got. We had some annoying teenagers in front of us who were practically yelling through the first 10 minutes, so Ian had to pull the "adult card," and say "Hey guys, other people paid to see the movie too."

He got a "sorry sir!" And if that doesn't make you feel old, I don't know what will!

I guess teenagers can be disrespectful and loud in any culture, huh?

(on a side note, if you know any teenagers, or are raising your own child- PLEASE teach them the proper decorum for theater going.)

We had a nice walk across the mall to this beautiful Indian restaurant. It was very authentic, no "butter chicken," here! But I did my best to read between the lines and found a chicken dish in a tomato cream sauce and thought that sounded like my beloved butter chicken, and it was!

We exchanged gifts. Kind of. As in, I forgot my card for Ian at home and had written his gift in there. I tried to be all clever, since it was our 4rd anniversary, which means your "Leather" anniversary and had promised Ian to get a new baseball (leather) glove and ball the next time we were in the big city.

Ian got me a beautiful gold necklace that had my name in Arabic script. He had given me a white gold one over 4 years ago, but I lost it in a Target while trying on necklaces in 2009 (boo.)

We headed home and had a good time chatting in the car and listening to some of our favorite music, Jack Johnson and The Postal Service!
And because every post needs some of Grace's cuteness, here is a picture Alison snapped of Grace while we were gone!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

{Three}

Today is our three year wedding anniversary!

We spent our first anniversary in our hometown of Orlando, Florida, our second up in Vancouver, Canada, and now, our third in the Middle East! No one can say we aren't adventurous!

I've loved the last three years and though they weren't picture perfect, my husband blesses me so much every day! I'm so glad I got to marry my best friend!

This year, I am too tired to do a wedding recap, SO...

Want to see a glimpse of wedding history? Read about our one year anniversary, our two year anniversary, favorite wedding pictures One, One-and-a-Half, Two, and Three!

Also read about The After Feeling- that glorious feeling when all of your planning and scheming has fallen into place!

And please, if you don't read any other post, PLEASE do yourself a favor and read The Morning After, to read about how my Dad was at the hotel on the morning after we got married. Especially if you need a chuckle today.

Monday, June 14, 2010

The After Feeling

Two years ago, about this time, I felt like this:

That is, complete and utter relief. A chance to "let my hair down," though it really was already down.

And relax we did! Our reception was an excellent example of how Christians can have fun Sans alcohol, haha.

And to this day, I've never been to a wedding that had a better or bigger crowd out on the dance floor!

(The secret, invite those kids! I was a nanny and a teacher for years so I invited all of my families I had worked with, and it was SO much fun! They kept people of all ages excited and dancing. And we had NO meltdowns ever. And by "we," I mean the kids. So many people leave them out, and then wonder why the dance floor only gets 20 people or so for four or five songs!

The other secret, choose music that is widely known, not just those special songs that mean alot to you and your husband. They are special, for sure, but no one else knows them or wants to dance to them! We did alot of iconic big band music, ones that got you singing along as you were dancing, think Frank Sinatra, The Beach Boys, Louis Armstrong.....and apple bottom jeans, lol!)

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Sister

Sister,
This should probably be a thought provoking, move you to tears, type of post.

After all, you are getting married today.

However, the nature of our relationship calls for something a little more light hearted. Because only you can make me laugh until I cry.

I call you my "Big D," even though your name is Heather Nicole...so there is no D. But You understand me. And I am your "Little D."

Forever and Always.

We won't explain it to our future kids. It'll just be how it is.

And even though our mother thought I was angelic and you were virginal.....

and that, apparently, we should be dressed in Easter hats that could be confused with a monster wishing to swallow our heads,

You are my friend like no one else.

After all, who else could projectile kick me across a room? Only you and your freakishly {spider like} long legs.
And even though you didn't think my April Fool's prank, to toilet paper your entire room, was funny, you can laugh about it now. And you still might retribution, but we're not really sure if that's possible.

You are my sister.

You are my friend.

And despite our differences (you're tall, I'm short, you're blond, I'm brunette, you're pale, I'm tan, you're musically gifted, I'm not,)

I will always love you.

Until you beat me at croquet.

And then it's Game On.

I love you Big D!
I hope your wedding day is incredibly special, filled with love and dreams come true.
Thanks for including me!

Saturday, August 1, 2009

A Memory

I spent about 3 hours yesterday watching "Say Yes to the Dress," and it made me think back to when my momma and I went dress shopping.

We headed to David's on a Friday night to go dress shopping, to get used to the whole process of trying one on. I had plans to have my sister and friends join us the next morning at a boutique, but Friday night was so special with just my momma!

Nothing really impressed me there, but one of my favorite pictures of me came from the dressing room. And yes, that is the petticoat/top, not a dress! haha.

I just love how it shows how excited I was, and paints me as being a teensy bit overwhelmed. What bride isn't at some point?

Friday, June 19, 2009

Favorite Wedding Pictures 3.0

Although my computer is still in a coma, I think that I will be able to squeeze out a couple more of these wedding posts because my wonderful husband has alot of our files backed up on his external hardrive! Hurray!

Check it out:
Favorite 1.0
Favorite 1.5
Favorite 2.0

Today's is all about the men. My man specifically, but, all of the other men involved too.


(isn't he handsome?)

Ian was so in awe of the whole wedding process, because he had never been to a wedding before! Now, one year later, this is old news to him, because since our wedding he has been to four or five weddings. I'm so glad our wedding was his first, because he really was in wonder at the whole thing, and was interested in hearing about the customs and traditions that we were incorporating.

Ian has a pretty tight knit group of guys, who, all but one, grew up together! Ian has two brothers, Sid (older,) and Andrew (younger,) who were groomsmen as well!









Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Favorite Wedding Pictures 2.0

All week, I am recapping out wedding with posts on our favorite wedding pictures (we had an amazing photographer!) in celebration of our one year anniversary.

Make sure to check out


This post is all about the bridesmaids! Let me first tell you though, that I have 3 wedding regrets, and they all have to do with my poor planning with the photographer.

#1 I regret not making a specific list of photos/poses that I wanted taken
#2 I regret not asking for individual shots of my wedding party
#3 I regret not getting pictures with my flowergirl AND ring bearer

There are other poses that I wanted, like me with the groomsmen, Ian with the bridesmaids, and in locations (we hardly took any inside our venue - an old courthouse turned history museum!) but those three regrets are the most specific, and they are also my fault! I knew I was supposed to make up a list, I just put it off.

Let me explain #2, because I know this isn't often done. My thinking is this: all of bridesmaids/groomsmen/flower girl/ring bearer/family of the bride or groom, have put alot of time, effort, and money into being there and looking good. They all looked so wonderful! It would have taken an extra 5-10 minutes top to get individuals of all my girls, and I know they would have loved to have them (after all, we live in a profile picture society.)

All that to say, here are some of my favorite pictures with just the girls:


















Favorite Wedding Pictures 1.5

I'm doing a week of wedding pictures and memories, in celebration of our one year anniversary!

Make sure you check out:


Favorite Wedding Pictures 1.0


Today's post is short because the event that was captured happened so quickly, that all of the pictures were taken by bridesmaid, because my photographer was outside taking pictures of the men.


Alright, so here is what happened....


First off, know that we aren't superstitious, but Ian and I held very tightly to the custom of the groom not seeing the bride until she walks down the aisle.

However, no one ever said that the bride can't see the groom!


The photographer took pictures of all of us ladies outside, and then we rushed inside to escape the heat and humidity that personifies Florida summers.


Then, the photographer took the guys out of their room, and took them outside to take pictures.


It dawned on me, waiting in the bridal room of our church, that there was a window, in the staircase of the balcony of our sanctuary, that offered a prime viewing area of the boys, without letting them see us back!


So I hitched up my dress, and went running, to see my handsome, dashing groom -to -be!

And the rest, is history.....